From the outside looking in

Here are a few unrelated observations I have made recently.

Marriage: Unless there are extenuating circumstances, like violence or in some instances, sexual preference :), the grass is never greener anywhere else. The exact same arguments will arise, the exact same aggrevations and insecurities will happen. We throw way too much away in hopes of finding happiness somewhere else. Happines is a choice we each make and no one else is resposible for our happiness...each of us is responsible for our own happiness. Marriage is sacred and should be worked on and nurtured on a daily basis. There really is no more important relationship to have.

Work (but life in general too): It is important to work as a team. Each of us should know the company agenda and work together to accomplish it. When a member is not fulfilling their role, it effects everyone. There can only be one outcome. If you are working for a company you don't believe in, leave, if you are working for a company where you insist on fulfilling your own agenda you will soon be asked to leave. Understand this principal and you will be well on your way to having a successful career.

Oh there is more wisdom where this came from but all in due time.

2008 reflection

Jan08 - I gained my independence from crutches and taxi cabs to buying my sweet sexy car
Feb08 - Cindy and I visited Shelley and family in Washington D.C.
May08 - Went to "girls weekend" with my sister then I turned the dreaded 50!
Jul08 - Mom and I visited Shelley and family in Washington D.C.
Oct08 - I went to Florida for an impromptu beach vacation with a Bolivian evacuated Shelley and kids. Then had surgery on my foot for the last time (I hope)
Nov08 - Found out I'M GONNA BE A GRAMMA
Dec08 - Thankful for a year of healing. I still miss David with all my heart but have chosen to be thankful for time I had with him. My foot has healed as well as it will ever be and is quite manageable.

My wish for 2009 is for a healthy, happy baby. I can't wait.
I'm also working on getting healthier myself. I now have a real reason to be as healthy as I can be. I want to be able to roll around on the ground with my baby just like my Nana Gayton used to do with us!

I wish you all a very happy and beautiful 2009.