From the outside looking in

Here are a few unrelated observations I have made recently.

Marriage: Unless there are extenuating circumstances, like violence or in some instances, sexual preference :), the grass is never greener anywhere else. The exact same arguments will arise, the exact same aggrevations and insecurities will happen. We throw way too much away in hopes of finding happiness somewhere else. Happines is a choice we each make and no one else is resposible for our happiness...each of us is responsible for our own happiness. Marriage is sacred and should be worked on and nurtured on a daily basis. There really is no more important relationship to have.

Work (but life in general too): It is important to work as a team. Each of us should know the company agenda and work together to accomplish it. When a member is not fulfilling their role, it effects everyone. There can only be one outcome. If you are working for a company you don't believe in, leave, if you are working for a company where you insist on fulfilling your own agenda you will soon be asked to leave. Understand this principal and you will be well on your way to having a successful career.

Oh there is more wisdom where this came from but all in due time.